Bunch for brunch

We hosted a lovely brunch Sunday with family, in part to celebrate Adria’s birthday (I won’t tell you her age, but she’s in her 65’s). These first three photos were taken by Dick and his new fancy Nikon camera (thanks, Dick!).

Mmm, poblano quiche (recipe from epicurious):

We all walked to the ‘egret’s next’, a beautiful pond (rather, drainage ditch) a couple blocks from our house.

Zach with Art and Lew.

Lewis talks in his sleep. And Ben answers.

Last night Lewis was calling out every few minutes from about 11pm to maybe 2am or so.  His eyes would still be closed, he didn't need anything and he wasn't soothed by having his covers or gackoo or bear rearranged.  He was just dreaming, I guess. Lewis wasn't waking up, but he was just waking us up.  At one point Ben got in bed with Lewis and that helped a bit but Ben must have pet Lewis the wrong way or something because he said, "No do that, Papa!"  Eventually Ben got back in our bed hoping the distress calls were over.  A little later we heard Lewis again, "No do that, Papa!" to which Ben replied from his spot next to me, "Ok, Lewis!  I won't do that!" 

After a little while Lewis was calling out again so we put Lewis in bed with me and Ben slept in Lewis's bunk all alone.  I found that if I had even just a corner of my body touching Lewis he stayed quiet, so I'd just lay a hand on his leg or scoot my back to his.  But that got hard as the night wore on because he kept ending up perpendicular to me.  Nevertheless, that bought good sleep for the rest of the wee hours.

Tonight he's been calling out again.  One time he said, "Dry off, Mama!!!  Mama!  Dry off!!!"  Perhaps he was reliving the moment he spilled water on himself during dinner tonight.  And I think he was dreaming about a bad sharing incident at one point because I could have sworn I heard him say, "Mine!  Mine!"  Ahhh, to glimpse in the minds of babes…

Help! I’m starting to panic!

So, of course I have already done a lot of reading about healthy twin pregnancy and managing/surviving that difficult first year and one source recommended getting all your preparations at home done by the time you are 30 weeks.  After that point you will not only be at increasing risk for early labor but you will be getting larger and more uncomfortable and tired.  You will be glad you got everything in order before then.  Now I'm feeling the pressure.

I'm about 21 weeks along now, give or take a few days, and I am getting to that hard-to-bend-over-to-pick-up-that-sock stage. After cleaning the kitchen last night I was so exhausted I couldn't wait to put my feet up and when I brought up a load of laundry I was audibly winded.  I'm starting to panic!  The clock is ticking and I'm only getting bigger!  So tonight I worked on the baby room, organizing the boxes of Art and Lewis's hand-me-downs and stashing crib sheets and blankets in the bin under the crib.  Tomorrow I might start painting our bedroom, part of the Twin Preperation.  I want our room to be beautiful, even if there's dirty baby laundry and dust bunnies piling up.  I still need to organize the spice cabinet in the kitchen and make a user-friendly bills area in case, God forbid!, Ben has to do the bills when I'm too tired to do it myself.  We need a changing table or dresser or something!  We sold ours!  And I need to organize the diapers and baby clothes!  I need to get the closet in the baby room super organized with shelves and hooks and baskets!  I need the Twin Nursing Pillow!!!!  
So, I'm feeling a sense of urgency.  I imagine that in a couple months I will be sleeping poorly (I'm already battling Restless Legs and a little achiness) and struggling to balance my enormous midsection.  This stuff needs to get done NOW!  Or at least in the next several weeks.  Wish me luck.  

Our new swing set.

Here’s a photo of the new swing set we just bought for $25(!) on craigslist (we’ll be moving it later this week). On the way there to give it a test ride we explained to Arthur that a family is selling it because their kids’ bodies grew too big. He asked if they would be sad that someone else was going to take it. Which is a good question in my opinion. And in fact the little girl was a apparently bummed to see her beloved swing set go. But after watching Art and Lew play on it her mother said she was lots happier that others kids would be playing on it. so that’s good. On the way home Arthur said, “I think that’s a good swing set.”

Training to library.

The whole family, along with Art’s good friend Si, took the light-rail train downtown to the fancy Central  Library to get some books.

They watch the train go away before a quick stop at Dream Girls.

Art and Si have this weird tendency to lock hands or arms and start yelling and flailing about. It’s inspired and fun to watch.

Haiku Mama

I can’t quite remember who gave me this little book, but I just rediscovered it and found some of my favorites. From Haiku Mama by Kari Anne Roy:

Sniffing newborn’s head,
a primal urge takes over –
try not to eat him.

Stabby curtain rod
poorly hidden in closet
is toddler’s new toy.

Awake so early,
small boy rises with the sun.
Can’t snooze a baby.

Tennis ball in sock:
sad yet apt description of
post-nursing boobies.

Making a playdate:
Why does it feel like high school?
Fear of rejection.

Red leaves on trees,
glitter poop in the diaper –
it’s the holidays!

Ben experiences weeknight dinner…

Ben's schedule of late has been all nights, all the time.  So that means that five nights a week it is just me and the boys for dinner, which has completely relaxed my cooking expectations.  I was still trolling recipes for the grocery list or cooking up a batch of this or that, but after getting burned by "I don't like it" so many times or just have so many leftovers even after we all had eaten our fill I have decided to most often to slap something together.  We have a lot of salads with balsamic vinegar for our veggie, we some kind of pasta probably twice a week, which is more often than Ben would tolerate, and occasionally we just have chick-patties with veggies and toast.  But tonight Ben did an early morning assignment so he would be home for dinner.  

Home for dinner!  What on earth am I going to make?  I'm not saying I have to make something fancy, but cooking for me, a toddler and a four-year-old is basically like cooking for me.  The two of them don't eat that much more than I would on my own and making something elaborate is no fun if your dinners are afraid to try it.  We had enough leftover sloppy joe for me and the boys, but not for Ben, too.  We had enough ravioli for me and the boys, but not for Ben, too.  Oh, well.  Ben was going to have to experience what weeknight dinner is like without him.
I made omelettes.  Chopped and steamed a little broccoli and asparagus, grated some cheddar and Parmesan, put some bread in the toaster and heated up the veggie-breakfast sausage we had in the freezer.  
As we sit down to eat Ben looks at the sausage on each boy's plate.  "I don't get any sausage?"  "There were only two," I explain.  See, I try to have a sure-bet in the dinner just in case the boys don't like the main dish.  I couldn't give Ben and myself the valuable sausage.  Then he looks at Art's omelette, oozing with melted cheddar.  "How come I don't get any cheddar?"  Well, Ben usually doesn't like a lot of cheese so I made him asparagus with Parmesan.  Maybe he was just feeling a little small because the weeknight meal is not the parent-centered production that our full-family meals are.  But it was kind of cute to watch.