Arthur and Lewis wanted to make a marble toy with Bubbe yesterday first thing in the morning. Adria, who’s on hospice care now, has moved into our house for a short time.
Author: bengarvin
Emily, Art and Jess in 2005.
Jessica’s lot.
Jessica is sleeping and staying all day at her mother’s house every other night in rotation with her sister Emily. Jessica is a trooper, a trucker, and non-stop mothering mother- I mean, she just keeps on going and going and going and takes care of our big family, her sick mother and even sometimes herself!
| Napping with a baby at Bubbe’s. |
When she’s away at her mom’s for the day the kids and I are all a little blue and more snappy. My mother is still in town and has been invaluable with baby/kid care, laundry, kitchen cleaning, and on and on. But we all miss Jessica. She fits like a glove in the house. Beams joy into all our children, fills me with giddy relief and happiness. I miss her so much, but as we’ve reminded ourselves this whole episode in our lives is temporary. And, of course, it’s worth it. For Adria to be able to spend so much time with the two people she loves most in the world, what a gift for her. She’s told me so many times how nothing could ever diminish her love for her daughters. She loves them so absolutely. She once joked that dying would be so much easier if she was estranged from her daughters. But, as I was visiting her the other day, she also said it would be easier to say goodbye knowing that they would be ‘cherished.’ And they will!
Subtle rainbow.
I’d like that, please.
Smile, act all cute and cuddly…and then, GO FOR THE JUGGULAR!
Rolling sextet.
Eating up high.
Ode to Jessica.
Jessica is a wonderful mother, the rock of our family. I mean that. I have such respect for her love of being a mom. She really does love it and it inspires me to be a better Papa. She makes me up my game. I can’t be lazy, I can’t wimp out. No no! I’d be lost without her and often am anyway. I love you so much, Jessica.
| On Mother’s Day. |
